Separation occurs when a couple who is married decides that they want to try living apart. Separation is often, but not always, a precursor to divorce. However, separation can also have different meanings in different states. Some states recognize the concept of a "legel separation," and such a formal arrangement can expedite the process of divorce. Others do not recognize a state known as "legal separation" but may still enforce a separation agreement if the couple draws one up.
Separation Agreements
Regardless of whether your state requires or recognizes "legel separation" or not, you may need a separation agreement. This becomes important because most states have a waiting period before a married couple may divorce.
In some jurisdictions, a couple has to live apart for around a year before their union can officially end under the law. During this time period, there may be many issues that need to be worked out. For example, issues of custody cannot wait a year, especially if the parents do not agree on who the child should live with or how much time the child should spend with each parent. Furthermore, if one spouse is going to need alimony or spousal support from the other in order to be able to cope financially, he or she may not be able to wait a year to get it.
In order to deal with these issues, many couples draft formal separation agreements when they decide to split up. These agreements can eventually become part of a final divorce settlement. They can also be given legel validity by a family court, if the couple needs for the court to make decisions or enforce support rights or custody rights.
Getting Help
If you are separating from your spouse, you need to consult with an experienced attorney for guidance and advice on the rules in your area.